Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

This is one of the biggest questions asked by the majority of people ask just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my call?"

If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works. Even worse it will put you in a bad position as well.

There are two catagories of these messages that fall under what not to do. one is the "plead" and the other is the "emergency."

This is what the Plead will sound like...

"...please, please call me. This is the 5th time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you!"

And this is what the emergency will sound like...

"...I need you to call me as soon as you get this message! It's an emergency! PLEASE call me as SOON as you get this!"

Can see what is wrong with either of these approaches? The answer should be obvious and even more obvious of why this will never work and in most cases work against you.

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are curiosity and self interest. The big secret is when you combine the two together, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

Here is an example of how these two powerful human emotions can work for you. Using a calm voice you will leave a message that will sound something like this...

"...I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me when you have some free time, because I'd love to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

Your ex can't resist! They will wonder to themselves, "What did I do?" "What does he/she appreciate?" Their curiosity will be killing them so to speak! And they will feel good about it as well because of the fact that this is a positive message and not an annoying one pleading them or begging them as an "emergency" to get them to return your call.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.

Have an underlying strategy

There is a great method that utilizes these techniques like the one that is layed out for BEFORE you call.

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Make sense?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Have a PLAN!

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